What Does a Year Can Do to You?

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Cliché as it sounds, there’s nothing truer than the fact that change is inevitable. I think we all know that by now. But even then, we still get frustrated by sudden changes that leads us to finding out what the factors were.

I am not going to talk about what factors change. I am here to talk about time in relation to change.

What does a year can do to you?

A year is too much. Every year, you are new. A person you met a year ago might not recognize you now. A friend of yours in High School may even pinpoint that something is different. But how about you, what do you think a year can do to you?

I am to talk about my personal experience, and if the sound of personal doesn’t bore you enough, feel free to continue reading.

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“Soulmate”

What makes a person a soulmate for someone? Does it mean you have to zing just like how Mavis and Jonathan in Hotel Transylvania did? Does it mean you have to seek a soldier when you are a doctor in profession? I think the extent meaning of soulmate is far deeper than that.

I guess being a soulmate means you feed someone’s soul. You complement them without exerting much of an effort. It doesn’t necessarily mean you supply what the soul starves for, but at least you are a support for the soul while it takes time trying to search for what’s good for itself. Continue reading

A Day Away (By Maya Angelou; Wouldn’t Take Nothing for My Journey Now)

We think that our affairs, great or small, must be tended continuously and in detail, or our world will disintegrate, and we will lose our places in the universe. That is not true, or if it is true, then our situations were so temporary that they would have collapsed anyway.

Once a year or so I give myself a day away. On the eve of my day of absence, I begin to unwrap the bonds which hold me in harness. I inform my housemates, my family and close friends that I will not be reachable for twenty-four hours; then I disengage the telephone. I turn the radio dial to an all-music station, preferably one which plays the soothing golden oldies. I sit at least an hour in a very hot tub; then I lay out my clothes in preparation for my morning escape, and knowing that nothing will disturb me, I sleep the sleep of just.

On the morning I wake naturally, for I will have set no clock, nor informed my body timepiece when it should alarm. I dress in comfortable shoes and casual clothes and leave my house going no place. If I am living in a city, I wander streets, window-shop, or gaze at buildings. I enter and leave public parks, libraries, the lobbies of skyscrapers, and movie houses. I stay in no place for very long.

On the getaway day I try for amnesia. I do not want to know my name, where I live, or how many dire responsibilities rest on my shoulders. I detest encountering even the closest friend, for then I am reminded of who I am, and the circumstances of my life, which I want to forget for a while.

Every person needs to take one day away; a day in which one consciously separates the past from the future. Jobs, family, employers, and friends can exist one day without any one of us, and if our egos permit us to confess, they could exist eternally in our absence.

Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us. We need hours of aimless wandering or spaces of time sitting on park benches, observing the mysterious world of ants and the canopy of treetops.

If we step away for a time, we are not, as many may think and some will accuse, being irresponsible, but rather we are preparing ourselves to more ably perform our duties and discharge our obligations.

When I return home, I am always surprised to find some questions I sought to evade had been answered and some entanglements I had hoped to flee had become unraveled in my absence.

A day away acts as a spring tonic. It can dispel rancor, transform indecision, and renew the spirit.

 

 

A Letter From A Misfit.

We’ll always be a family in the eyes of people and God. We’ll always be a family in papers. We’ll always be a family by blood.

Family. They said family’s the one you could run into when everybody has turned their backs to you. They said family’s the foundation of good manners and right conduct. Family’s home, and home is where you story begins.

I knew it from the moment I became aware of the reality I’m into. I knew it from the moment I have perceived how things are supposed to be with us. I knew it from those family moments, that I never really belonged.

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A Reminder For The Growing, Expanding, and Changing “Me”.

Rachelle Anne,

You live in a crazy world. But your maturity is expanding as you keep growing, and these cause you to change. The joy is not as easy to attain as it was when you were in your childhood, and the burdens you bear as you mature are of greater weight; most of the time, these burdens mislead you from becoming the better version of yourself. I’m pretty sure that the way you deal with what life has thrown upon you plays a huge role in generating your personality. So, I decided to list down multiple reminders and unexpected discoveries I made about you and some other things like career, friendship, studies and relationship. Continue reading

Labels

TheDuff-Graphic4Teenage year is just so complicated. It can actually be more complicated than Math with alphabets. We are the most labeled group in the society. And we were known by these labels more than our names.

Labeling is people’s way of naming a person based on what their eyes could see. Some are good, some are mean. Oftentimes, they’re just a lazy description of a person’s personality. We’re afraid to be labeled by something bad, and as a result, we disregard who we really are for who we should be. We push ourselves to become what society wants us to be. Continue reading

My Greatest Dream.

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I will be a mother someday.
I will have a daughter someday.
And when I do …

I won’t let us be apart,
I won’t let my daughter be heeded by someone else before me.
I won’t let my daughter starve,
Starve for food,
Starve for love,
Starve for attention,
I won’t.

I will be a mother someday.
I will have a daughter someday.
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Work in Progress

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Are you tired of the life you are living? Fed up with all the problems you keep on receiving? Do you feel like quitting already? Listen.

Failures and sorrows are examples of what makes life unbearable. But, what you have to do is see life on a different perspective. “Look for the bright side,” easy to say, right? Easy to say when your day goes bright. But when you are the one who’s experiencing the rain, it’s indeed hard to look for the light when the storm clouds are darkening your sky.

I say, look not for the bright side, but for the positive purposes. Continue reading

To those who says no to Neverland.

Have you ever felt the urge to grow up? Like, you want to add 10 years in your age at this very moment? You want to grow up in a way you see your youth as interference in fulfilling your dreams and plans?

Right now, I’m pretty sure most of us are already in the midst of preparing the blueprints of our future. And in the moment we make our plans, we get so excited that we start wishing we’re grown ups. Continue reading